The Story of Amina and Ade
Let’s gist about Amina. She loves her men black and cute, with chiseled arms and broad shoulders.
One afternoon, Amina was scrolling the internet when her Instagram notifications blew up. Guess who it was? Ade, her crush, liking and even following her. She took her time before following back, just to add a little shakara.
They started chatting. After months of talking long-distance, Ade finally traveled to Kogi to meet Amina. They went on a date, made it official, and spent a week together.
The Love Turns Sour
When Ade returned to Abuja, things changed. He stopped calling. Amina reached out, even sent gifts, but got no response. Months later, Ade returned with excuses. Amina, in love, forgave him.
She went all out for his 30th birthday, buying gifts and booking a spa day. Their bond seemed to grow stronger. Until one day…
Amina traveled to Abuja to surprise Ade, only to find him in bed with another man. Shocked and devastated, she still stayed, apologizing and trying to understand him.
Love or Mumu?
Let’s be honest—what Amina is holding onto is not love. Love should not mean begging someone to treat you right, ignoring red flags, or forgiving betrayal after betrayal.
True love starts with self-love. Until Amina loves herself first, she will remain stuck in heartbreak disguised as love.
Final Thoughts
I believe in love—but not in being a mumu. Everyone deserves a partner who values, respects, and cherishes them.
Like I said, this write-up may not be perfect, but it’s my starting point. Stick around for more stories, reflections, and honest conversations.